I think I have hit the wall....so to speak. Steven has been away since June (home on weekends) at college and I guess you could say that I have been doing the 'single-mum' thing since then. No offense to all of you single mums. I seriously take my hat off to you....I don't know how you do it without losing your mind at times.
I just woke up this morning and felt totally over it all. I love my little girl more than life itself. Looking at that photo, how could I not! It's no understatement but neither is it an understatement that today....I'm over this gig. I just need a couple of nights away with NO-ONE! Just me. Just 2 days of not being forced out of bed in the middle of the night and then having to follow that up with some ridiculous hour in the morning. Just 2 days of not having to think about or care for anyone but me.
The last few months have just been endless nappies, clothing changes, toilet training, meals, cleaning the kitchen a zillion times a day, washing, sleepless nights, early mornings, seizures, racing to get Ayla and myself ready in time in the morning, medications (don't even get me started here), therapy, food on the flippin floor, grocery shopping, lifting, lifting, lifting, feeding, slobber on my frickin face. I know this just sounds like one almighty whinge fest but, you know......IT IS! I'm tired and I need some R+R. I'm going away this weekend for a whole 24 hours....whacky friggin do! It's not nearly enough and trust me it won't be a restful 24 hours.
Steven finishes at the end of November and if I'm going to make it until then (intact) then I think I need a little something to look forward to. I'm picturing a cheap little cottage by the sea. Slow, late mornings, beach walks, knitting, reading, napping, eating, early nights, all night sleeps and wake up and do it all over again the next day. I'm on to it.